How it started
I took on the challenge because of an excellent job opportunity. The role sat at the intersection of the diverse experiences and skills I'd built since I started working at 17.
It materialized through conversations, my experience in a related industry, and a combination of intersecting skills: bilingual, finance background, and familiarity with the blockchain industry. The kind of role that doesn't show up on a job board — it shows up in a network.
The living process
My first instinct was to reach out to my network. With their help, I adapted quickly to the new lifestyle and started building relationships through sports and business activities.
Still, the first two months were a stretch — adapting, out of routine, finding my footing. It's an uncomfortable process, but it brings long-term benefits once you settle in. On the positive side, the pace on the coast is more relaxed than in the city, leaving more room for work and growth.
Building a routine
When you move to a new city, find a group aligned with your interests and start there. The odds are high you'll find a social support network within that group. Your co-workers are also a great way to get the social energy running.
Key points
Living on the coast comes with trade-offs. Some are obvious; others reveal themselves over time.
AdvantagesWhat I'm learning
It has been a blessing. I've learned to be comfortable being uncomfortable, and I've grown closer to people with more experience than me.
One of the best things you can do at a young age is live alone. Your feedback loop gets shorter and learning compounds quickly. It sharpens you at solving problems, and over time the things that once felt high-stakes settle into the normal bar.
Develop your skills and take calculated risks as early as possible.